Be stubborn about your
goals and flexible about your methods.
I recently had an old
student email me, thanking me for my help on her journey to nationals this
year. While we only worked together for a brief time a few years ago, I
couldn’t be happier that I’ve made an impact. She reminded me why I teach and
why I am still in agility. I am here because every team has the ability to make
amazing transformations. As handlers, it is our job to create a training
system, handling system and set goals to maximize our dog’s potential in this
sport. Every dog has a different path, and every journey is worth it.
I once had someone try to
convince me that Whimzy wasn’t worth my time, wasn’t good enough to be at the
top. They tried to convince me that I didn't have potential in this sport. I
almost believed it… that we couldn’t be the team I dreamed of being. Mind you,
this was after earning gold medal at worlds. But words have an impact on us and
can take away from even the most gratifying experiences. In fact it destroyed
my thought process, despite our achievements I could not believe in us. It was
here that I knew success was so much more than accomplishments. It includes the
ability to be emotionally in control over success and failure, the ability to
learn from all available sources, and a willingness to engage in positive thinking.
I had to learn all over again to believe in my teammate, to practice success as
a mental skill. Reaching goals is only part of the process, learning to think
about success in the right way is how we reach our potential. I am still in
agility to tell anyone that will listen that your dog, your dreams are worth
it. I will never do what that person did to me. There is no goal too small or
too great to aim for, all it takes is commitment to your teammate.
This is the duty we have
to our dogs, to be successful thinkers. To take mistakes and find a remedy
rather than an excuse, that is success in action. For this, we have to maintain
an open mind in our approach, and develop the system our dog needs. I am still
learning to practice success, but I want to do right by Whimzy in this journey.
She is worth it. We are worth it.

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